Friday, March 24, 2006

Still A Dry County Around Here

Well... it's still pretty dry around here. Today I used my vibrator for a loong time to work off some pent up needs. Overall, though, the sex has gone even more downhill. Interestingly, it hasn't really been bothering me. Maybe I finally went over the edge and my body has given up or something. Everything else is particularly good in our lives together. It's just sex once or twice a month, though. It seems bizarre and I wish it was different, but at the same time I guess my body and mind have adapted to not having a great sex life and I'm not as psycho over it anymore. I haven't figured out if that's a good thing or a bad thing.

Friday, December 23, 2005

End O The Year Post

I'm not dead. I just haven't had the time or inclination to be back for a while. I have so much more on my mind rightnow then whether or not I'm haivng sex (not, if your curious). This blog has a purpose and I will probably be back from time to time, if not back to regular posting, but right now I'm just not in the mindset to write much.

Merry Christmas and may the new year find you all having LOTS OF SEX - whether you want to or not!


Saturday, October 29, 2005


Have three weeks really passed by? Amazing. While we've had sex a couple of times I haven't really had an opportunity to get started on my "plan". The reason is that we have both been SOOOOOO sick all month that even I haven't wanted sex much! FInally, we're feeling better and hopefully November will bne a hella better month.

BTW, I got me a little this morning =)

Saturday, October 08, 2005

I Know A Secret

I'm pretty sure I said it before and I'm saying it again. Sure, timing relates, but if I want to have sex, I just have to be the instigator and the agressor. This morning when we woke up (after having an odd dream about being away for a weekend and having a sex dream as a prelude to sex) I gave my guy a full body massage, stripping and licking him along the way. After a while we were BOTH ready and it was yummy.

Here's the thing - it gets me JUST as hot to do those things to him, turning him on as it does for him to do those things to me. But, I WANT him to do those things to me. But, I want to have sex. I have the power to have sex and to get HOT, I just have to be the one doing the work. So, I guess the question is why do I want to resist doing the work on principle when the outcome really is the same AND what I want!?! Giving him a blow job makes ME wet! So, whats my problem? Quit my bitching, do some work, get really turned on, and get off. Prolem solved, right?

I'm going to try this. I do have to admit that this plan may work better for women wanting sex than for men wanting sex. I'm going to try it and see if my sex life improves. If it does and we're having fun, then the next step would then be to nudge him into taking a starring role once in a while. I'll keep you posted, as usual.

Saturday, October 01, 2005

**cough cough**

We've been SICK all week =( Life is NOT so fun, but I'm hoping that tomorrow will be the day that we heal up. It's been a hell week. Sex? Neither one of us has had an interest. Mainly, our interest has been SLEEP. Of course, *I* pretty much got NONE... coughing keeps me up =(

What a boring post, huh? Sorry... nothing steamy. And, I'm okay with that!

Sunday, September 25, 2005

Miracles Happen

Welpers, yesterday HE not only wanted sex, but woke up, went in the bathroom and mouthwashed and then returned to wake me up with gentle caresses. Who is this guy, anyway? AND, it was even purty good sex! Whoo! You'd think it was my birthday or something! Oh, wait, it was! hahahaha

That was a nice gift =)

Wednesday, September 21, 2005


All I'm going to say is NOPE. That would refer to my weekend.

Granted we do have a house guest this week, and we've been staying up a little late, so I guess I can forgive this week, but there were no excuses on the weekend! BLEH!

It's okay... There is always NEXT weekend, right?

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